We Compare about everything... From Prices of product to our lifestyle, looks, or even our past.
Ever heard of this sentences " When I was young ah! I used to help my mother do housework unlike you" or " I work from young, unlike you, my child who only laze around at home".
My mum used to say that. They Just Keep on comparing and comparing to the extent that I felt that it was pure irritating.
Compare, might be a motivation to motivate a person to work harder but excessive might just backfired. Or it will just be irritating to the listening and bring frustatration to the speaker since it was obvious to the speaker that the listener just took whatever the speaker said as rubbish.
Everyone has a unique personality and traits. Hence if compare a certain someone to another it might be kind of impossible.
Try comparing a musician with a scientist.
You can said that the scientist was bad with music compared to the musician which was of course! It should be that way.
In School, we compare about result, who gets the better result and so on.
In Work, we compare about our social status, position, salary etc...
When we form a family, we compare about our children...
we just keep on comparing and comparing until the day when we were buried by the soil.
Only then we will lies peacefully without comparing, inside the earth.
Some people like to say " I think you can't do that"/ " You won't be able to ..."
They tend to put their Speculated opinion/result on others.
They tend to judge.
But How long do you think the Judges that sit on the chair inside the courts studied or work to become a judge?
Why do they need to take so long to even have the qualification of being one?
That's because any misjudgement will cost the lives of a innocent parties.
In daily lives our misjudgement might not cost the lives of a innocent parties but it will be a mistreatement to the others parties.
To make it simply it's just not the right thing to do.
This might sound contridicting.
There is no absolutely right or wrong thing in this world, nor there is a can't or can task/job in this world.
Since there is no absolute in this world.
We can't say if a person is right or wrong perhaps we could only feel all this through our moral/integrity as a human.
However there is no person that was totally perfect nor there totally imperfect...
Hence there should be no body that was totally fair enough to judge others.
Whatever we think that was right could only be our perspective/opinion.
Since it was only our own, the only person that we could judge could only be we, ourselves.